{"id":32344,"date":"2023-08-24T02:37:18","date_gmt":"2023-08-24T02:37:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.goodacademic.com\/blog\/questions\/hot-buttons-recognizing-your-hot-buttons-and-how-your-reactions-to-childrens-behaviors-can-delay-the-development-of-appropriate-prosocial-skills\/"},"modified":"2023-08-24T02:37:18","modified_gmt":"2023-08-24T02:37:18","slug":"hot-buttons-recognizing-your-hot-buttons-and-how-your-reactions-to-childrens-behaviors-can-delay-the-development-of-appropriate-prosocial-skills","status":"publish","type":"questions","link":"https:\/\/www.goodacademic.com\/blog\/questions\/hot-buttons-recognizing-your-hot-buttons-and-how-your-reactions-to-childrens-behaviors-can-delay-the-development-of-appropriate-prosocial-skills\/","title":{"rendered":"Hot Buttons \u2013  Recognizing your hot buttons and how your reactions to children\u2019s behaviors can delay the development of appropriate prosocial skills."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<b style=\"font-size: 11pt; color: var(--color-1); font-variant-caps: inherit; font-weight: bold; cursor: auto;\"><a style=\"font-weight: inherit; font-size: 14.666668px; cursor: auto;\">https:\/\/challengingbehavior.cbcs.usf.edu\/docs\/Hot-Buttons.pdf<\/a><\/b><\/p>\n<div style=\"margin: 0in 0in 8pt; font-size: 11pt; line-height: 15.693334px; cursor: auto;\"><b style=\"font-weight: bold; cursor: auto;\">Hot Buttons<span style=\"cursor: auto;\">&nbsp;<\/span><\/b>\u2013&nbsp; Recognizing your hot buttons and how your reactions to children\u2019s behaviors can delay the development of appropriate prosocial skills.<\/div>\n<div style=\"margin: 0in 0in 8pt; font-size: 11pt; line-height: 15.693334px; cursor: auto;\">This week&#8217;s discussion board brings us back to the Pyramid Model and an activity that helps us understand how our reactions to children&#8217;s behaviors can hinder our ability to best support them in their skill development. Download the attached sheet and follow the directions of the activity.&nbsp; A few pointers as you progress through the form:<\/div>\n<ul style=\"margin-top: 1em; margin-right: 0px; margin-left: 0px; padding: 0px 0px 0px 40px; font-size: 13.333332px; cursor: auto;\">\n<li style=\"font-size: 11pt; line-height: 15.693334px; cursor: auto;\">1.&nbsp; examples of behaviors may be hitting, biting, tattling, whining, etc.<\/li>\n<li style=\"font-size: 11pt; line-height: 15.693334px; cursor: auto;\">2.&nbsp; examples of emotions you feel are: frustrated, annoyed, avoidant, etc.<\/li>\n<li style=\"font-size: 11pt; line-height: 15.693334px; cursor: auto;\">3.&nbsp; be honest in how you respond to children&#8230;we can all think of ways how we could have responded better, but the idea of this exercise is to look at your true response and how it affects the relationship.&nbsp; For example, my reaction to tattling is avoidance&#8230;so my immediate response makes me want to just walk away from the child.<\/li>\n<li style=\"font-size: 11pt; line-height: 15.693334px; cursor: auto;\">4.&nbsp; the effect of my response of avoidance is that the child gets no support from me.&nbsp; The child does not learn anything from that interaction.&nbsp;<\/li>\n<li style=\"font-size: 11pt; line-height: 15.693334px; cursor: auto;\">5.&nbsp; the effect on the family is that I have no strategy to share with the family in terms of this behavior because I avoid it and sweep it under the rug.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<div style=\"margin: 0in 0in 8pt; font-size: 11pt; line-height: 15.693334px; cursor: auto;\">Complete the form and then share your thoughts on the activity with your peers.&nbsp;<\/div>\n<div style=\"margin: 0in 0in 8pt; font-size: 11pt; line-height: 15.693334px; cursor: auto;\">1. Share one hot button with your peers and how it plays out in the activity.<\/div>\n<div style=\"margin: 0in 0in 8pt; font-size: 11pt; line-height: 15.693334px; cursor: auto;\">2.&nbsp; Share its effect on your relationship with the child.<\/div>\n<div style=\"margin: 0in 0in 8pt; font-size: 11pt; line-height: 15.693334px; cursor: auto;\">3.&nbsp; Finally, share two strategies that you could use to prepare for a better reaction to the behavior.&nbsp; How might you prepare yourself?<\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 1em; font-size: 13.333333px; cursor: auto;\"><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; cursor: auto;\"><span style=\"font-size: 13.333332px; cursor: auto;\"><span style=\"font-size: 13.333332px; cursor: auto;\"><span style=\"font-size: 13.333332px; cursor: auto;\"><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 1em; font-size: 13.333333px; cursor: auto;\"><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; cursor: auto;\"><span style=\"font-size: 13.333332px; cursor: auto;\"><span style=\"font-size: 13.333332px; cursor: auto;\"><span style=\"font-size: 13.333332px; cursor: auto;\">Please add a relevant faith integration component, quotes, and\/or other outside research for full credit.<span style=\"cursor: auto;\">&nbsp;<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 1em; font-size: 13.333333px; cursor: auto;\"><span style=\"font-size: 10pt; cursor: auto;\"><span style=\"font-size: 13.333332px; cursor: auto;\"><span style=\"font-size: 13.333332px; cursor: auto;\"><span style=\"font-size: 13.333332px; cursor: auto;\">Submit your initial post no later than Friday and then respond to the postings of at least two other classmates by Sunday night.<\/span><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; font-size: 13.333333px; line-height: normal; cursor: auto;\"><span style=\"padding: 0in; font-size: 10pt; cursor: auto;\"><span style=\"padding: 0in; font-size: 13.333332px; line-height: 14.266665px; cursor: auto;\"><strong style=\"font-weight: bold; font-size: 13.333332px; cursor: auto;\">An important note on formatting for the discussion boards in this class:<\/strong><br style=\"cursor: auto;\"><\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; font-size: 13.333333px; line-height: normal; cursor: auto;\"><span style=\"padding: 0in; font-size: 10pt; cursor: auto;\"><span style=\"padding: 0in; font-size: 13.333332px; line-height: 14.266665px; cursor: auto;\">Formatting requirements for discussion board postings are somewhat more relaxed than a traditional assignment, but some basic standards are requested for professionalism and the convenience of your classmates.<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; font-size: 13.333333px; line-height: normal; cursor: auto;\"><span style=\"padding: 0in; font-size: 10pt; cursor: auto;\"><span style=\"padding: 0in; font-size: 13.333332px; line-height: 14.266665px; cursor: auto;\"><\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; font-size: 13.333333px; line-height: normal; cursor: auto;\"><span style=\"padding: 0in; font-size: 10pt; cursor: auto;\"><span style=\"padding: 0in; font-size: 13.333332px; line-height: 14.266665px; cursor: auto;\">*It is recommended that you compose your posting in a word document with regular font and spacing so you have a copy (just in case!) and so you can use spell and grammar check. However, when it is complete please<span style=\"cursor: auto;\">&nbsp;<\/span><strong style=\"font-weight: bold; font-size: 13.333332px; cursor: auto;\">do not attach it<\/strong><span style=\"cursor: auto;\">&nbsp;<\/span>to the discussion board, but<span style=\"cursor: auto;\">&nbsp;<\/span><strong style=\"font-weight: bold; font-size: 13.333332px; cursor: auto;\">copy and paste<\/strong><span style=\"cursor: auto;\">&nbsp;<\/span>it instead.<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; font-size: 13.333333px; line-height: normal; cursor: auto;\"><span style=\"padding: 0in; font-size: 10pt; cursor: auto;\"><span style=\"padding: 0in; font-size: 13.333332px; line-height: 14.266665px; cursor: auto;\"><\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; font-size: 13.333333px; line-height: normal; cursor: auto;\"><span style=\"padding: 0in; font-size: 10pt; cursor: auto;\"><span style=\"padding: 0in; font-size: 13.333332px; line-height: 14.266665px; cursor: auto;\">*Posts are expected to be a minimum of 250 words.&nbsp; Be sure to post your submission into the text box and do not put it in as an attachment (unless the post asks you to specifically add an attachment).<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; font-size: 13.333333px; line-height: normal; cursor: auto;\"><span style=\"padding: 0in; font-size: 10pt; cursor: auto;\"><span style=\"padding: 0in; font-size: 13.333332px; line-height: 14.266665px; cursor: auto;\"><\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<div style=\"margin-bottom: 0.0001pt; font-size: 13.333333px; line-height: normal; cursor: auto;\"><span style=\"padding: 0in; font-size: 10pt; cursor: auto;\"><span style=\"padding: 0in; font-size: 13.333332px; line-height: 14.266665px; cursor: auto;\">*Also, you are not required to create a reference page if you are using your textbooks for the course as long as you make it clear which text you are using. If, however, you include information from a source other than your textbooks you<span style=\"cursor: auto;\">&nbsp;<\/span><strong style=\"font-weight: bold; font-size: 13.333332px; cursor: auto;\">should<\/strong><span style=\"cursor: auto;\">&nbsp;<\/span>provide a reference for that source at the end of your posting.<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;https:\/\/challengingbehavior.cbcs.usf.edu\/docs\/Hot-Buttons.pdf Hot Buttons&nbsp;\u2013&nbsp; Recognizing your hot buttons and how your reactions to children\u2019s behaviors can delay the development of appropriate prosocial skills. 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